The Quiet Wedding Revolution: Less about the stuff, more about the experience of it all.

People often ask me what sort of wedding I photograph — and who, precisely, chooses me as their photographer, especially when I’m not all over social media and do tend to fly under the wedding radar by design.

It is a question I find genuinely interesting to consider, because the answer, over the past few years, has quietly and rather definitively shifted.

The couples who seek me out now are largely invisible online. Not because they are reclusive, or unaccomplished — quite the opposite.